Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others: The Fascinating Research That Can Land You the Husband of Your Dreams by John T. Molloy

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They take it cool and calm and are never in a hurry to pour out their own opinion. They would prefer to have a good meal in their own homes instead of hanging out in a cozy restaurants from time to time. The difference between that and the initial topic is that a lot of men don't feel their future wives filing for divorce is a fate they can really control.

Can you imagine after having dated someone for so long and you say hey, what do you think about us getting married and his response is yeah maybe some day? If he were to actually leave his wife or partner to make this relationship permanent, brace yourself for a nosedive.

Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others:... book by John T. Molloy

Based on 11 years of extensive market research An utterly compelling read, this book contains illuminating facts and tips from the author's market research team of 300 experienced researchers who interviewed focus groups and engaged couples over a period of 11 years. Over 2,500 women and their fiances, along with over 1000 single people, were interviewed. When their answers to questions were analysed, patterns arose that led to the successful strategies offered in this book. As such, I wanted to read the book for myself. I feel that I've read some cold hard facts that helped create minor adjustments within my dating plan. This book is about statistics and facts. If you want to complain about the 600+ people interviewed for this book, then by all means, do your own research project. If you want to proudly state that you won't change yourself f The way I found this book is rather amusing: I became annoyed at one of the one star reviews on Amazon. That is your truth and you are living your life accordingly. However, for those of us that want to get married and want to do it in the most strategic, well planned way possible to a man that is the best fit for us this book is for us. Sometimes, it's hard to realize that you aren't perfect. The older I get, the more socially shy I've become in bars and other common social scene experiences. If I'm not running an event or one of the leaders of a group, I pretty much become introverted and would rather read a book. This will not help me find a suitable partner. In reading this book, I've comes to terms with this fact - and more - that I've been in denial about. Kismet is a nice idea - but why men marry some women Universe helps people that help themselves. In summary, like every other book based on dating and mating, it will have general facts and personality modification suggestions that you can either follow or not follow. But, if you're out of college and single, face the facts that dating now turns into strategic planning and facts. Personally, I greatly valued reading this book. Don't let the cheesy cover picture put you off. This is an excellent piece of social science research and general science writing. I checked this book out from the library not because I was interested in the topic, but because our local library did not have Molloy's Dress for Success books. When I was a teenager, Dress for Success was my first introduction to experimental design and controls. So, when my daughter asked for my advice on how to design a psychological science fair investigation, I w Don't let the cheesy cover picture put you off. So, when my daughter asked for my advice on how to design a psychological science fair investigation, I wanted her to read Molloy's work. I pointed out the sections about survey methodology and finding control groups to reduce bias in the results to her. The findings and the conclusions are spot on in the general sense. I found a husband by accident when I was 20 so I don't know anything about the singles scene. But, Molloy et al's and he had many research collaborators who were female observations are generally applicable to social and work situations outside of matrimony. It's well worth spending an evening reading this research whether or not you are spouse-hunting. I'm reluctant to admit I read this book, let alone enjoyed it, but I did. I have all kinds of defensive things to say like 'I only read it because I could borrow it as an ebook from the library', or 'I don't even want to get married myself'. The thing is, even though the book is quite out of date and doesn't look at the statistics on whether or not marriage is a good idea, if marriage were your goal, it presents an engaging analysis of the data on people who are successful at getting married and Why men marry some women reluctant to admit I read this book, let alone enjoyed it, but I did. The thing is, even though the book is quite out of date and doesn't look at the statistics on whether or not marriage is a good idea, if marriage were your goal, it presents an engaging analysis of the data on people who are successful at getting married and on those who are not. It's funny: when we read that a slender, intelligent, well-educated woman is more likely to get work, we just nod, but to read that such women are also more likely to get married raises hackles for some reason. One of the reviewers complains that the book puts all the responsibility for marriage on women's shoulders, but the author goes out of his way to describe the kinds of men who will never marry, such as confirmed bachelors or bitter divorced men though the amicably divorced are very likel It's funny: when we read that a slender, intelligent, well-educated woman is more likely to get work, we just nod, but to read that such women are also more likely to get married raises hackles for some reason. One of the reviewers complains that the book puts all the responsibility for marriage on women's shoulders, but the author goes out of his way to describe the kinds of men who will never marry, such as confirmed bachelors or bitter divorced men though the amicably divorced are very likely to remarry. Much more sadly, I learned that widowers who had to nurse their wife through a long illness or watched her die a painful death are very unlikely to remarry. This book even says something why men marry some women read it and you'll get married in less than a year. I was given this book to cure my single-ness problem. According to this book, I'm beyond screwed until I settle for a 20-something. I find lots of holes in the author's sweeping judgements and conclusions. Some of the data he collected is interesting, but not able to pinpoint everyone. There are lots of these 'how to land a man' books out there. Some interesting conclusions based on the research: how men feel when broached with the subject of marriage, who's most likely according to the research to get married and how you're most likely to get your man to propose. Each chapter covers a different stage from meeting men to getting married an Why men marry some women are lots of these 'how to land a man' books out there. Each chapter covers a different stage from meeting men to getting married and ends with a list of recommendations based on the research of what to do. The section on marrying over 40 was very revealing albeit kind of a bitter pill to swallow there. Written before online dating was the thing so not much at all on that type of dating. Still definitely worth reading for those who want a true take on getting married and how to improve your odds. I loved this book because he so thoroughly skewered the you'll never marry ifs that so many of my friends kept throwing at me back in the day. I kept on doing what I thought was right, and got married. They kept playing their weird games, and are still single. Not that Molloy covers every possibility, but he did very accurately describe a lot of the myths going around when he published the why men marry some women, along with why those ideas were both dangerous for those who wanted to get why men marry some women and mythologic I loved this book because he so thoroughly skewered the you'll never marry ifs that so many of my friends kept throwing at me back in the day. Not that Molloy covers every possibility, but he did very accurately describe a lot of the myths going around when he published the book, along with why those ideas were both dangerous for those who wanted to get married and mythological because reality wasn't working that way. Whether this book would be any help in today's dating scene or whatever it's called nowadaysI dunno. Most of it is what I always considered common sense -- except for the fact that so many women I knew didn't get it, so maybe it's uncommon sense after all. Started skimming this in the library and found myself actually reading it so I took it home to finish. I was interested because of the research done to write the book and actually found the stats fascinating in some cases. I have a Masters in Psych, so yes, I may be a little crazy that I like reading other people's research studies. Found a lot of the advice to be pretty common, but as someone who prefers everything to be black and white, I really did like that the book gave stats to back up t Started skimming this in the library and found myself actually reading it so I took it home to finish. Found a lot of the advice to be pretty common, but as someone who prefers everything to be black and white, I really did like that the book gave stats to back up the advice. I just liked seeing the statistical averages to compare myself against. I only read this book because it was on the bookshelf of the guy I'm dating. Which in itself is hysterical. The book pretty much managed to annoy me, stress me out, and bore me all at once. It does have some good points, and it is based on genuine statistical evidence. But so much of it is common sense, and it amazes me that there are women out there who are clueless to a lot of this stuff. I did laugh out loud at several points. And it wasn't attempting to be funny. Picked up this book because the fact that the results were based on years of research appealed to me. I liked the way the author presented the results while being quite sensitive as to the potential affect on women who are the target audience for this book. I would recommend it to my friends as one of the major ones for their shelf, especially to dispel lies women keep telling themselves to stay in self-denial instead of socialising and making an effort to meet relationship-friendly men. Parti Picked up this book because the fact that the results were based on years of research appealed to me. Particularly useful sections on dating divorcees, widowers and over-forties. Some women will be uncomfortable with the home truths that lie within these pages. But it's good to hear the male perspective on what men find attractive and what is a turn-off, particularly relating to the late thirtysomething woman. Although obviously written from an American perspective, culturally it fits well with British people hoping to find a life partne Some women will be uncomfortable with the home truths that lie within these pages. Although obviously written from an American perspective, culturally it fits well with British people hoping to find a life partner. I appreciated this book and wish I had read it sooner in life. It opened my eyes to things I was doing wrong in my 20s. It also opened my eyes to facts about the way men relate that I just never learned through experience or from female friends. My favorite part of this book was the description of the natural stages in relationships. This is one of the better relationship books I've read and I've read a lot why men marry some women them. If you can get past the horrible, horrible title seriously, what was this editor thinking. Based on information gleaned from interviews with multiple newlywed or engaged couples, and single men and women, the author offers tips on how to find romance, or convince the man you're dating that it's time to get married.

By never letting life get static, this woman busts the myth that being married means feeling humdrum. You just might discover a competitive streak you never knew you had. If you want to discuss marriage, you're probably going to have to bring the subject up, because many men never will, Molloy warns, and his book sets forth a straightforward plan for any marriage-minded woman willing to change her habits. It takes a lot including an accumulation of all the things on this list to make a real man. But the section on how to determine whether the man you are dating is likely to marry is a gem. As such, I wanted to read the book for myself. It literally just recommends signs to look out for, and age-ranges to look at. Ladies, its your own fault to blame if your husband strays because if you can't tell hes uninterested in you-then youve got problems. Molloy — is based on over 3,000 interviews conducted by Molloy and his researchers.